Love in the wrong places?

If anyone has ever told you that your looking for love in the wrong place, or you wonder why you keep finding assholes or the wrong people... Maybe i can shed some light on your situation. It has nothing to do with looking in the wrong places.... it has to do with traits. People pick up on certain traits, lifestyles and key components in a person they find attractive and like. Then they slowly filter out everything else that comes through because it becomes instinct. Subconsciously without even knowing it they start doing it. But because we train ourselves in that manner, we go through life picking up key components and think they are the whole package without looking at the flaws. (i.e. just because it has yellow and black stripes and wings and has a stinger doesn't mean it is a honey bee) There are still different kinds of traits we over look because we are caught up in the moment of comfort that we forget to analyze everything. Any person can be anyones gf/bf, IF... Your willing to adapt and change. Some guys/girls were once sweet, maybe even that nerd with a good heart but because of teasing, being played with n fucked with. They have now become the asshole/bitch/slut/hoe you know today. Maybe the nerdy girl who got hot and now acts like a total bitch or kind of sluttish because she used to envy the other women around her that did get all the guys.... You can find the right person if your willing to break down your filter and subconsciousness and rebuild it. Weigh out the pro's and cons on why you end up with the wrong person, what attracted you to them in the first place, and start to look for some of the same traits and opposites in someone new. Maybe then you will find the happiness your looking for. The hardest thing for us as humans is not to LEARN but to UN-LEARN what we already know....

-Graffiki